I agree with everything you said. I didn't get into it because the physics alone starts to get complicated and the overall situation is even more complex. It would take pages and pages to even skim the details of this issue so I tried to edit myself and keep it within the limits of this forum (BTW, this very topic is what I do for a living).
I would also argue that not only the physics involved would have a significant effect on the problem, but so would the behavior (and there's about another 1,000 other principles that would have some effect as well). For example, if you asked me whether or not I would prefer to fly into an airport with 500 crows scattered through the infield or 20 pigeons (both birds being roughly the same), hands down I would go to the one with the crows, since they are far more adept at avoiding collisions with planes. The same can be said for drones (in general). Unlike birds, where the object is uncontrollable by humans in order to avoid a collision, drones are under the direct control of an operator. Most (and obviously not all) drone operator would likely actively try to avoid colliding with an aircraft, even if they are operating near an airfield. As a result, the likelihood of a drone hitting an aircraft is far lower than if these were randomly flying objects around an airfield. In essence, drones behave much more like crows than they do pigeons.
But again, I would like to make it clear that I'm not advocating flying your Mavic near operational aircraft. The risks involved are real, for the drone operator as well as the aircraft occupants. I'm simply noting that the reactionary hyperbole attached to the usage of small UAS's (by both the FAA, government officials, and the general public/media) are far from the reality of the situation and deserve some rational risk management perspective.