Well, you know what they say about first impressions - like it or not they do matter and for some reason I seem to be associating your avatar's image/countenance, etc. to your personality. Obviously, I don't know you from Adam though. It may be that one of the first posts that I read of yours you seemed "crotchety" and that's what I walked away with. Content does matter - I just find that sourpuss highly annoying and less than flattering. I have to work harder to not be dismissive. Others may tend to have the same reaction, i dunno.
I didn't throw the "my .02" in to be a "smart donkey", but rather to indicate my take was meant as constructive criticism along with the recognition that online a lot of people get offended easily and react accordingly - myself included. Just my attempt to try not unnecessarily offend you while sharing my perspective.