Okay so I went to the flying field today again and recorded more or less the same shots, once with 25fps and once with 30fps and I flew as if for real filming interesting objects and not the soccer field I was standing on. I then reviewed the footage myself and came to a conclusion, then I rewatched it with my wife (who has some photography training but does not fly drones) and she came to the same conclusion: 30fps looks just too artificial, in the shots @25fps you could well imagine a camera crew on a helicopter taking the shot but you wouldn't fool anyone into thinking this with the shots @30fps. While it's true that @30fps everything looks smoother and there's less motion blur, it has this distinct telenovela/studio look which we really didn't like.
But the stutter problem remains when filming continous sideway movements, especially when there are regular patterns on the ground, which is a problem but not unsolvable. Simple solution: avoid these shots
I had to shift my thinking, I am not filming while flying a drone - a FPV drone with a GoPro mounted would be more suitable for this - but I want to shoot an object or specific scene and I just happen to have a camera that can go anywhere.
So first I chose what to shoot and how to bring that object best into the camera. Some smooth gimbal movements while flying back- or forward will do but most certainly a pan from left do right will be mediocre. Tap Flying towards an object while turning works though surprisingly well @25fps, in general when paning I found that I have much less stutter when the drone is also flying in a direction, especially when flying backwars while paning.
No stutter when flying to- or from an object, while rising or sinking, gimbal movements, bird eye flying in straight lines, fast flying in sport mode high or close to the ground. Only in semi-fast turns there is stutter noticable, on fast turns it's all blured out and on very slow turns there is almost no stutter.
I think I'm ready for Elba now, hope I won't mess up my flying time my family allows me there. I also discovered that my laptop can handle 4k without problems, even directly from SD and my video editing software works well too, which means I can review the footage during the holidays after all
[EDIT]: actually, what I found out today on the field have others known for a while, curious it wasn't mentioned here as explicitely (smooth movements):