You can see what your flight data looks like here:
DJI Flight Log Viewer - PhantomHelp.com
There's no indication that you lost signal at all during the flight.
The recorded flight data shows the whole flight without any gaps.
You flew out 3491 feet and initiated RTH at 9:20.
You left RTH to do its thing without additional joystick input but at 9:35.7 you pushed the right stick full forward.
Using the joystick probably helped the drone come back faster (still slow at 3-6 mph against a headwind).
At 12:22.2 you pulled down on the left stick which brought the drone lower.
AT 12:42.4 the drone reached a point directly above its homepoint and commenced autolanding.
But you kept the right joystick pushed full forward which took the drone nearly 500 feet away from the home point as it descended.
It looks like the drone crashed into the lake at 13:04.8 with you still giving full right stick forward and full left stick down.
You got that part of the story right.
But knowing where your drone is and what it is doing is very important.
Without that knowledge, it's easy to make mistakes that can be serious.
Your mistake with the joysticks is described above.
That was the problem that caused the loss of the drone
It's understandable that DJI point to the telemetry because it shows you fighting the autodescent to fly your drone into the lake.
If you had gone hands-off with the joysticks, it would have returned home and landed safely where you launched it.
You might like to re-think that?
I've looked at the same data as DJI did and possibly explained it better than they did.
It doesn't look like DJI did any spinning or manipulation of data.
And the Not Enough Force messages were an irrelevant false alarm.
There's no indication of any problem contributing to this incident.
In the circumstances, I don't think you could expect any better offer from DJI.