No, there are not MANY "near miss" incidents. They are extremely rare, considering the number of the drones sold worldwide.
The incidents near airports are rare too.
Drones don't collide with manned aircraft, because they don't share the same airspace. So the possibility for a collision is very little.
For those few who fly in nfz, or disturb air traffic, or disturb firefighters, the laws are strict, and the airspace they violate, is already restricted for all of us. So those who are crying for stricter regulations, should not be afraid, because regulations are already there, and are strict.
Yes, there is an hysteria about drones, mainly among drone users. It's obvious in this forum. I hope with time, they (we) all will calm down.
They make collision simulations, and report the results, as they are REAL incidents. But they aren't. The possibility is very low, and the possibility of real damage is even lower. At least until now. Real life is a witness of this.
I'm waiting the results of collision simulations, of a drone falling on international space station, with a speed of 50000 m/s. I'm sure they will be catastrophic. Lol.